بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
To differ in inevitable. Never in history is a society void of ideological or any clashes. In fact, one of His signs or ayat is the creation of human with different types, colors, races and languages.
"I beg to differ" is a very common phrase we hear or even use. It is just too hard to agree on everything, and we are not asked to agree on everything. Sometimes it is easier to agree to disagree than the opposite.
The clashes in a way, help us improving and reviewing ourselves. Without critics and opposite comments, we never see the hidden bad sides and will always being syok sendiri with false achievements. In another way, it introduces us to new people. Should the clash not happen, we would not get acquainted with them.
However, not all disagreements are good. Some may divide the society in a negative way, especially when the disagreement or critics arise from hatred and detastation. These kind of critics are away from the signs that we said in the beginning. The orientation is different. Rasional is not used despite it seems to have it.
When everything is just not right, the words are void of love, and not consistent, most probably it is of the later type of disagreement. The only way to deal with it is to ignore and pray to God so that He will guide them to the right way.
To differ is normal, but in a sense of academic under the shade of love. Be honest to ourselves. Say right when it is right and accept the truth from everyone.
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